Received an email from a guy asking, “What do I do if I think my girlfriend has herpes? I’ve noticed she has “fever blisters” from time to time around her mouth and I’m worried she has herpes.”
Here’s my response:
This is a lose-lose conversation. If she has it and hasn’t already told you, do you really think she’ll fess up because you asked? Second, if she doesn’t have it, you just got dumped. No chick wants to date a guy who thought she had a venereal disease.